Nurse from NYC says she wants to get me fired for not “respecting my patients” because I don’t use their preferred pronouns.

It’s threats like this that are precisely why I do remain anonymous.

Categories: Cancel Culture


Joe Blow · May 25, 2023 at 8:24 am

Yes, they ARE that insane. Probably hiring a private I to dig up tour info so she CAN try to fuck you over.
There will not ever be peace with these harpies.

Chris · May 25, 2023 at 8:29 am

Another one that wants there 1hr of social media(Sm) fame. The β€œGreat” influencers. Haha.

Anonymous · May 25, 2023 at 8:33 am

HR?? She sounds like a tattleing child.
I’ve never had a job that HR excisted.
Never would or will either.
Wonder what she would do to me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Divemedic · May 25, 2023 at 8:39 am

    She kept threatening me with getting me fired, getting me banned from Twitter, etc. So I blocked her.

dc · May 25, 2023 at 8:58 am

Stephanie has mucho hate to share with everyone. It would have been fun to correct her YOUR to You’re.

Anonymous · May 25, 2023 at 9:12 am

Hey Stephie, don’t work in healthcare if you’re not going to be honest with EVERYONE, it’s an obligation that you signed up for. If you believe simply providing an equal level of service to each patient is somehow the key, then I believe you’re doing it wrong.

Oldvet50 · May 25, 2023 at 9:16 am

My personal pronouns are β€œI/me”, just like all the rest of the English-speaking world!
Just as an expectant mother who does not know the sex of her child yet, she and others will refer to it as ‘it’…as in “We hope IT’S a girl”. If the mother uses β€˜they/them’ it will be twins or more. I believe that is the correct grammar usage. I will always use ‘it’ to refer to someone of ambiguous sex/gender

J. Smith · May 25, 2023 at 9:21 am

I think most of the stuff like this are AI bots and trolls. I did twitter on a 30 day challenge last year and i used logic and reason on all my tweets, all the responses would be like this. Its like they would come out of the woodwork in seconds. I think its all fake. I just avoid all of it and am much happier.

El duderino · May 25, 2023 at 9:37 am

I’d report her progtard ass to her HR dept as well. Fight fire with fire. Cancel culture rules works both ways, despite the constant whine of progtard dbags that they’re “spechul” little snowflakes.
What’s good for the goose and all that. ;-D

tfourier · May 25, 2023 at 10:59 am

Guess what? She works in HR.

Claims to have worked as a clinical nurse in the past but interesting enough never in ER. Or else she would most definitely have mention it. So my guess never a ward nurse except maybe during training.

So sounds like one of the typical hospital bureaucrats.

    wojtek · May 25, 2023 at 2:57 pm

    Is she doing all of this while supposedly at work? Perhaps you should write to her supervisors? πŸ™‚ Better yet, doxx her here.

      Divemedic · May 25, 2023 at 3:13 pm

      If I knew who she was, I would.

        wojtek · May 25, 2023 at 4:03 pm

        Do you really want to know? πŸ˜‰

        wojtek · May 25, 2023 at 7:23 pm

        Because if you do want to find the sweet Mrs Stephanie C who claims to have discovered all of your LLCs πŸ™‚ plus countless other secrets, all you have to do is to scroll down her public twitter account from which she claimed to try to destroy your life, all the way down to a post where she reminisces about being chosen a 2012 state representative for the Organization of Triangles Inc in NY πŸ™‚

          Divemedic · May 25, 2023 at 8:27 pm

          Lol. Thanks. That means she is Stephanie Tuttle Coccarelli of Freedonia, NY. Her husband’s name is Anthony.

            wojtek · May 25, 2023 at 9:38 pm

            Speaking of the so-called husband, scroll further down to the first post and you will understand another thing or two about the sweet Mrs. T. C.

            wojtek · May 25, 2023 at 9:41 pm

            Oh and Tyler, not Anthony.

              Divemedic · May 26, 2023 at 7:43 am

              Yeah, Anthony is her Father in Law. I got confused because they had the same address. I think her and her husband still live with his parents at 147 Gardner St
              Fredonia NY
              But I don’t have a beef with them, so I won’t go further with that.

                wojtek · May 26, 2023 at 10:02 am

                Why do you say “his parents”? To me it looks like he’s a she.

                It really is a pity what is happening with young people. The area where they live – that’s supposed to be a very normal area – 10% of her high school class has outright Polish names (not even butchered yet by the futile attempts to match spelling with pronunciation).

    C · May 25, 2023 at 10:31 pm

    After working with ER nurses and nurses on the inpatient floors the difference is night and day. In the ER unless they’re an extreme lefty all the bleeding heart bullshit is bludgeoned out of them in a month or less. Don’t have much good to say about the other nurses. They don’t have to deal with near as much BS as the ER. Our inpatient section is on the corner Petty Street and Drama Boulevard. Hated having to go to that department.

RMChris · May 25, 2023 at 11:06 am

In Clown World, it’s “respectful” to switch between truth and lies. Always speaking truth isn’t respectful to Clown World. Hats off to you for being willing to be honest with everyone.

    Divemedic · May 25, 2023 at 11:12 am

    Now she and her friends are spamming my Twitter account with Tweets and DMs, along with screenshots of this blog and threats to get me fired and deplatformed. I did my homework a bit more than that. This blog is domained and hosted in countries that won’t respond to threats like that, and I am fully redundant.

WallPhone · May 25, 2023 at 11:21 am

Administering a prostate exam to someone with fibroids is not healthcare, it’s malpractice.

It's just Boris · May 25, 2023 at 11:49 am

What she’s demanding is impossible.

In some cases you cannot ethically provide the same healthcare regardless of people’s beliefs, unless you are willing to disregard those beliefs.

Simple example: people who don’t want to get vaccinated. Respect their beliefs and you are not providing the same level of healthcare. Perhaps another: some religious beliefs eschew aspects of modern medicine. Same issue: you can either respect their beliefs, or give them the same level of care as non-believers. You cannot do both.

Bad Dancer · May 25, 2023 at 11:55 am

What fun they must be. Smugly sitting on top of their little echo chamber thinking that everyone else thinks like them and they are oh so clever not knowing how much they and their kind are hated and reviled until they absolutely lose it when someone calls a spade a spade to their humorless scold faces.

Somehow the respect and tolerance of others viewpoints never ends up going the other way though yeah? Respect all persons and view points…..oh except that one, and that one, and those, and these. Its like my HR lady who will rant and rave around the office about “rich fat cats” while making over 100k as of the last round of raises to more or less approve office supply orders and deny help to employees as best I can gather.

Aesop · May 25, 2023 at 2:11 pm

I love it when Karens lose their barely-tied-down shit because they think my professional responsibility is to cater to the psychotic delusions of the mentally ill, or that my right and professionally mandated duty to non-compelled speech is somehow revoked by such insanity.

News Flash for the Tard Army: It doesn’t work like that, Sally Snowflake. Maybe apply some Butthurt Creme if that chaps your @$$ beyond your ability to cope. And get a refund on your education. You were both grossly misinformed, and under-educated.

The only pronoun I use at work for patients is “you”, and cleverly, it has no gender.

Bullshit rejected, psychosis anally raped. Without lube. And a Pride Flag inserted in Karen’s Opinion-Dispensing Orifice, (at one end or the other). FTW.

And if HR opened their piehole about any of that, they’re welcome to fire me, but they’ll do it writing, because their teeth will be randomly scattered hither and yon. I’m past the point in life where I’m unwilling to see that stupid hurts, just for a paycheck. When last I looked, I’m a commodity in short supply, and the number of hospitals that realize that grow by the hour.

    Divemedic · May 25, 2023 at 2:17 pm

    Exactly. She threatened to look me up through this blog, claiming that I am not impossible to identify, then contact my employer to have me doxxed and destroyed.
    Better hope she gets the right person. If she doesn’t, Donald Trump just showed what a losing defamation suit will cost you in New York.
    Oh, and in Florida, the failure to use your selected pronouns is not grounds to get your RN license revoked. If it was, that in itself would be grounds for a First Amendment lawsuit.

GuardDuck · May 25, 2023 at 2:20 pm

Yeah, I treated the paranoid, delusional patients with respect. That didn’t mean that I agreed that they were one eyed lizard people in the room with us….

    Divemedic · May 25, 2023 at 2:32 pm

    I’m nice to everyone, even those who are attacking me. I can politely put you in a wrist lock.
    That doesn’t mean that I should play along in your delusions.

    Aesop · May 25, 2023 at 5:32 pm

    Wait…someone else saw them too???

Red · May 25, 2023 at 3:16 pm

She claims she is a Nurse? Interesting that little Stephie thinks pronouns are more important than keeping a patient from dying a horrific death. Or dealing with a gut shot victim or a drug overdose pre-narcan. No thank you never again. The late 1990’s and early 2000’s were not fun. I wonder how she would handle a visit from a 3 letter agency.

Anti-Social Media · May 25, 2023 at 8:20 pm

Weaklings playing some 1960’s LARP that their soft fruity parents told them about.
Intersectionality is American Maoism.
You get a free struggle session cracker.
Forward! Si se puede!

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