Entertainment

A couple was arrested for leaving an unsecured bicycle in their yard then using a bat to beat thieves who tried to steal it.

The best part of the story is how wven though they were arrested, no charges were filed. The real purpose of police is to ensure a fair trial for those accused of crimes. Once they stop ensuring that and criminals run wild, their victims take matters into their own hands.

That’s My Policy

Oregon police say that grown men exposing themselves isn’t a crime unless they can establish that the man exposing himself is doing it for sexual gratification. The leftists there agree with him because a 2 year old won’t remember it, so no harm, no foul.

Here is my answer:

When the cops arrive on scene and there is a dead naked guy in my yard next to my child, and I am standing there saying he was trying to sexually molest my child, who are they to say I am wrong?

Another Killer Tranny

Hey, at least they are out there killing the Muslims who would gladly toss them from a roof. I will allow it. Penalties offset. Replay the down.

The fact that they were not MAGA, but instead were trannies explains why this dropped from the news cycle so quickly.

Men and Women

We have been having a lively conversation about child support and paternity. A comment here made me want to write a complete post as a story and possible warning from my own past:

The one thing that I have always been poor at, is in romantic relationships with women. I did have a girlfriend once who told me that it was because I am a professional rescuer in every sense of the word, and she told me that because I feel the need to rescue everyone, some women will take advantage of that. I’m not sure if she is right, but a string of failed relationships does tell a compelling story.

One of those relationships was as big of a mess as you could ever imagine. This one was the one and only time that I dated a woman who had children. She had two of them, and about 3 months after we began dating, I let her move in with me because she and her two kids had nowhere else to go. I helped her out in a lot of ways. I let her use my second car, I provided her with a cell phone on my account, and treated her children properly. A few months later, we broke up, but she kept my car and my cell phone. Then she sued me for child support.

So it turns out that we had dated for a year and a couple of days before breaking up, and there is a law that says if a man acts like a father to children that aren’t his for a year or more, but that man is the only father figure these children know, the court can consider what is in the best interests of the children and can compel him to visit, spend time with, and pay child support for the children. The theory is called parentage by estoppel. Under the doctrine of parentage by estoppel, a court can order a non-biological man to pay child support if:

  • He knew he was not the biological father.
  • He held himself out or acted as if her were the child’s father
  • The child relied on that representation, forming a parental bond and treating him as a father.

This is applied in narrow circumstances, often in stepparent or long-term partner situations. A year or more of acting as the only father figure can support such a finding. Once established as a legal or equitable parent, support obligations can follow even after separation. So that’s what she tried to do.

In my case, she told the court I was abusing her, so she wanted child support and also a domestic violence injunction. That way, I wouldn’t get other parental rights like visitation or joint custody, but I would still have to pay child support. It took me a year to get out of that mess. You can read about much of the case here. I resolved to never again date a woman who had a child.

I made the mistake of telling the story to another girlfriend, and she tried doing the same thing, just minus the child support. It was also a mess. The only good thing with this one is that she was stupid and I only had to deal with it for about a month. I can certainly understand the idea of men not wanting anything to do with women. Thanks to our court system, relationships with women are something that is fraught with danger.

Rich and Poor

Kevin O’Leary tells people not to waste $28 a day on lunch.

He is immediately scorned because, the people who are struggling complain, then produce excuses as to why they need those $28 lunches. Do the math:

If you go out to lunch at $28 a day every workday, that works out to $560 per month in lunches. What if you had brown bagged it every day instead? That could easily free up $350 per month that could be invested. In an index fund at 9% per year, that adds up.

  • In 10 years, it would be worth $67,000
  • 20 years, $233,000
  • 30 years, $640,000
  • and at 35 years, you would break a million

Or you can keep going out and spending $28 a day on lunch, $5 on a Starbucks every morning, and complaining about how you are still broke and blaming “boomers” for the fact that you can’t afford to buy a house.

The Next Chapter

The SCUBA tragedy in the Maldives has another interesting turn, and one that actually supports my belief that the divers were diving far beyond their training, equipment and experience. The bodies of the four missing divers have been recovered, and they were located in the third chamber of the cave at a depth of 200 feet.

The Italian tour operator that manages the Maldives diving trip denied authorizing or knowing about the deep dive that violated local limits, its lawyer told Italian daily Corriere della Sera on Saturday, according to an AP report.

Orietta Stella, representing Albatros Top Boat, said the operator “did not know” the group planned to descend beyond 30 meters. Crossing that threshold requires special permission from Maldivian maritime authorities and the tour operator “would have never allowed it,” she said.

I want you to look at this short video of the equipment that the dive team is using to recover the bodies.

This setup is called a rebreather. It works by having the diver rebreathe the air in his lungs over and over again. The device removes CO2 from the exhaled air and adds oxygen as needed to maintain a safe mixture. These devices are the gold standard for diving at the edge of human physiology. This is closed circuit diving, and rebreathers are specialized equipment, costing tens of thousands of dollars for each.

Now consider what the divers who died were equipped with:

The Italian divers were experienced, but the equipment used appeared to be standard recreational gear rather than technical equipment suited for deep-cave diving, she said.

This is the part that I can’t confirm, but this is reportedly the cave where the group was diving. Even if it isn’t the exact same cave, this is what it would look like. These caves are covered in fine silt, and one wrong move, one errant fin kick sends that silt up into the water of the cave, reducing visibility to zero.

One of the things you do in an area where visibility is potentially poor is use guidelines. A guideline is a rope that leads you back to the exit. Firefighters, rescue personnel, and cave divers are all familiar with this. The line has markers on it to indicate direction so you don’t accidentally follow the line in the wrong direction. It looks like this:

The round markers are called cookies, and the arrows are called, well, arrows. These shapes are easy to identify by feel in cases where there is no visibility. The arrow is placed on the line so it points to the exit. Unlike arrows, which explicitly point toward the nearest exit, cookies are round and do not point anywhere. They are used to mark other things. For example, if a cave branches off in different directions, the guideline will as well. So you use a cookie to mark which of the guidelines the team followed to go deeper into the cave.

In this case, it is evident that the divers didn’t use guidelines. They weren’t equipped for deep or decompression diving, and none of the divers involved were trained for this.

When that visibility is zero, you are weightless, it’s very disorienting. If you don’t know what you are doing in a cave, this is a death sentence. You have about 3 minutes to figure it out, or you and everyone with you in this cave is dead. That’s how 5 divers can die all at once. My guess is that this is what happened, and one of the divers managed to make it as far as the cave entrance before his air ran out. This has been my belief all along, and nothing I have seen to date contradicts my belief.

Now that the bodies have been located, the plan is to recover two of them tomorrow, and the final two on Wednesday.

Twenty Years

The community note on this tweet is wrong.

Let me explain. Child support is based upon the sum of the incomes of both parents. There is a chart and a formula. So let’s say that the father has two jobs. One where he works for the fire department, and a second job where he works as a janitor at a theme park. The mother claims to be working 20 hours per week as a bartender making $6 per hour. The child support is calculated and they take 70% of the father’s income for the couple’s two kids, but aren’t taking any of the income from his second job. The amount being taken is still less than 60% of dad’s total income, so they are below the Federal limit.

I would guess that’s what is happening here. The $163 the man is left with is the income from his first job, and he also has income from a second job. The example I used above wasn’t bullshit- that’s what happened to me when I was paying child support. It’s what actually made me homeless. The judge didn’t care. When I told him the money they were leaving me wasn’t enough to survive on because it wasn’t even enough to pay rent, the judge said “Get a second job.” When I pointed out that I already had two jobs, his reply was, “Well, get a third job, then.”

So you do that, and guess what? Now you are making more money, meaning that your child support increases again. It was impossible to get ahead. When I had one job, I was paying $700 per month in child support. I was forced to live on $700 per month. I got a second (part time) job, the wife went back to the judge, and my support went up to $900 per month. But hey, now I had $900 per month to live on.

How was my wife making it? She didn’t have a job. She had $700 per month in child support, $400 worth of food stamps, $300 in earned income credit, $200 per month in WIC, and $300 worth of welfare, plus she was getting $750 a month babysitting two children while their parents were at work. She netted a total of $2650 a month. Yeah, she got half of whatever I was making, plus she got to keep all of her money AND collected all kinds of government assistance money.  That is the equivalent of grossing over $40,000 a year. Meanwhile, I was living below the poverty level on what was left. It is easy to see why many men become “deadbeats.” The child support system is fundamentally unfair, and there is no mechanism in place to ensure that the money actually supports the child.

They take the money right out of your paycheck before you get it. Some men work under the table or drift from job to job to avoid paying. That doesn’t really work. If you try that, they take your professional licenses away. Good luck making a living at anything other than minimum wage without a license. Still, some men work at their own business or have help working under the table. Those men get their passports and driver’s licenses taken. The debt accrues and never goes away, not even in bankruptcy. Eventually, they will toss you in prison if you aren’t paying.

I always knew that my ‘child support’ was going to support their mother, not the kids. That is why things like this always make me angry, when I think about how women use their children to ride the gravy train, while their fathers get accused of being ‘deadbeat dads’ because they can’t afford to pay.

As soon as the kids turned 16, she threw them out of the house and had them live with me. First my son, and a year later, my daughter. As soon as it was no longer profitable, they were unceremoniously thrown out.

She still plays the game to get your tax dollars. Right after the first kid was thrown out, she got a job at WalMart as a cashier, and ‘injured’ her back soon thereafter. She now collects Social Security Disability and collects survivor benefits because the man she married after me passed away. To this day as far as I know, my ex-wife has never had a job her entire adult life other than that one year working at Wal Mart. Now that all three of her kids (2 from me, 1 from the dead guy who came next) are grown and out of the house, she lives in a doublewide trailer near Gainesville with her now elderly mother. Between them, they collect more than $5500 per month in SS benefits.

It’s been twenty years since I last paid child support. It still pisses me off. America’s new class of entrepreneurs are young women having children out of wedlock, or they marry a guy, have a kid, then divorce him, and collect. It may or may not even be his kid. Most people who work for a living actually make far less money than America’s new entrepreneurs. Forget college, the average college graduate only makes $44,000 a year upon graduation after 4 or more years of college. By the age of 20, a young woman can be making more than that with almost no effort, all she has to do is get pregnant a few times.

Risks

I love how the readers of this blog have such a depth and breadth of experience. Nothing illustrates that more than the SCUBA discussions we have been having. I keep my gear as simple as I can, both because I want to manage the dive, not my gear, and the simpler your gear, the lower the odds for a malfunction. Let me explain my setups:

Buoyancy Compensator

My BC is one I made myself. There was a custom metal shop in Pennsylvania that made custom backplates out of solid stainless steel. The company was called Hammerhead SCUBA. They have since gone out of business. The plate and tank adaptor, pictured below, weigh in at about 12 pounds.

To that, I added a single length of seatbelt webbing wound through the plate, making it into both a waist belt and shoulder straps. On the waist belt, there is a single pouch for adding a single soft weight, so I can use it to adjust buoyancy for things like thicker wetsuits. Also on it are numerous stainless steel d-rings so I can attach various things to my gear when needed.

Also attached to the backplate is an OxyCheq wing with 30 pounds of available lift. They are great wings, and in over a decade of diving, I actually wore one of them out and they let me buy a replacement at 50% off. Great company.

To make things comfortable, I also put a back pad in it. This also created a pocket of sorts that is the perfect place to hide a folding dive flag for when I am on the surface and want to be seen by nearby boats.

Regulators:

I have two Aqualung Legends, one with a DIN connector and one with a Yoke. The yoke connector fits my pony bottle. I also have an older Mares regulator that I sometimes use, there is a DIN fitting on it, and the two DIN regulators I have are tuned so that when you take a good breath on them, they practically force air down your throat. When I am working hard, I want there to be no feelings of being air starved. I have a mechanical pressure gauge on all of them, as well as a QD hose for my dive computer, which allows me to move the computer easily from one regulator to the other, if needed.

Computer

I went through a few computers before I found one I really liked. I tried the wireless ones, and didn’t like them. They lose connection to the pressure sensor too easily. My favorite computer is the Oceanic Pro Plus. Also, it has large numbers that are easier for this old man to read without glasses than is a wrist mount computer. Other advantages are that it allows me to change between three different gas mixes on the same dive. I’ve had great luck with this computer- it served me on hundreds of dives with no issues, including the occasional decompression dive.

Tanks

For tanks, I have a pair of 120 cubic foot high pressure steel tanks, and another pair of 100 foot tanks. I like the 100 foot tanks better. They are 11 pounds negative when full, 2 pounds negative when empty. Using this and a steel backplate enables me to dive without using a weight belt. With this configuration, I am neutral at 10 feet of sea water and an empty tank. Perfect buoyancy. I only accept EAN from companies that blend. I will not use banked EAN because I have had too many issues with contaminated gas from them.

I also have a 19 cubic foot aluminum tank that I use either as an emergency supply or as a deco tank. As a deco tank, I fill it with EAN80, as an emergency tank, it either has air or EAN32.

The rest of it

Completing my setup, I dive with 36 inch freediving fins, because I find that a long stiff fin allows me to drift and steer with little effort but also lets me take advantage of strong leg muscles and really get some speed on. I wear a pair of diving shorts with pockets, so I can store a lift bag and thumb reel with 100 feet of line in one pocket, and a rechargeable flashlight in the other. Attached to my waist belt is a short 4″ dive knife. No snorkel, none of that other extraneous stuff that isn’t really needed, just a simple mask. Too many divers buy a ton of crap that they don’t need, then look like they are wearing half the dive shop while they are in the water. All that does is create drag and weight, which slows you down and causes you to use more gas.

Diving for (Almost) Free

At first, my girlfriend at the time and I used to maintain a website that was a list of dive spots and boats in Florida. We would review all sorts of sites and boats. That’s why my internet handle is divemedic. The site is gone, but it was fldiving.com, and once a boat or shop found out you were running a website for divers, you got all kinds of free stuff. Then my girlfriend and I split up, and I let her keep the website. It lasted a year or two longer, then it disappeared. I guess she didn’t keep up with it.

After that, I spent a few summers working as an underwater dive guide. You don’t make any money at that. What you do get to do is dive for free. Get on the good side of a local dive shop, especially near a tourist area. Florida does some odd things diving that people up north aren’t used to. One of the things we do is drift diving, which other places really don’t do. Tourists want someone to walk them through it, so the dive shop gives them your name and number. They call, and you recommend a boat. There are boats that know my name and offer to let me dive for free if I bring at least three other divers with me. The tourists make the reservation with the boat and pay for their dives and give the boat your name. It doesn’t cost the tourist any extra money for my services, they get a guide who makes sure they have a good time while being safe, and the boat gets some business for the price of an extra diver that costs them nothing. Everyone wins.

When it comes time for the dive, you help them get set up on the boat, then right before we all jump in, I would check their gear to make sure it was setup correctly. After that, all I had to do was throw on the BC and mask, jump in the water, pull on my fins, and I was good to go. This setup is very quick and easy to get into and out of. Fitting these dive trips into my fire department schedule was easy, and I would spend the summer getting in as many as 50 or 60 dives a month. One summer, I hit almost 200 dives from June through August. The most dives I have ever done was a two day period when I did 10 dives between 60-110 feet in just two days. All free.

I would guide my tourist puppies through the dive and get them back to the boat. Sometimes they would tip, sometimes not. I didn’t care. All the tips did was pay for the gas and tolls to get from Orlando to West Palm Beach, Pompano, or Boynton Beach, those being the locations of my favorite dive boats.

The drift diving here is fantastic. The boat drops you on a reef one or two miles offshore, with the bottom being 55-110 feet below, depending on which reef you are diving. For tours, I used to seek out 55-65 foot deep reefs so I could dive it on EAN36 without an issue. The leader (me, when I was the guide) tows a buoy with a dive flag on it using a rope. The divers drift with the current along the reef. You can see a tremendous amount of interesting sea life. At least one or two sharks on every dive- most of the time, you will see even more. Occasionally, you see a really large one- 8 feet or more. During the summer, water visibility can vary from 20 feet all the way up to being able to see the dive boat while on the bottom at 80 feet. On those days, it’s like swimming in a glass of gin.

The limit for the dive is when the first diver in the group hits 700 pounds of gas remaining, a diver hits his NDL limit, or we have been in the water for an hour. I would then have the entire group surface with me. We would spend an hour on the boat, change tanks, then do a second dive. In all, we would spend about 3 or 4 hours on the boat. I would use the rinse hose and some baby shampoo to shower on the back of the boat while we were headed back to shore. Sometimes, I would take a vacation or sick day and spend a week diving every day.

Those were my best days of diving. I spent my summers (this was about 2 years after I divorced my first wife) SCUBA diving. I was great- my tan was awesome. I can see the allure of being a beach bum. It was amazing. I got over 2,000 dives in less than 3 years, averaging more than one dive every calendar day.


One of the boats used to joke with me, because I once spent over an hour and a half on a 60 foot dive and he was pretty pissed. I pointed out to him that he said “dive the limits of your computer or until you are at your reserve air pressure.” Not my fault I have great SAC, a 120 cubic foot tank, and was breathing EAN36.

After that day, the captain would drop my buddy and me in the water first, motor off some distance to drop the rest of the divers, pick them back up, then come over to get me. He was a nice guy. Near as I can tell, his boat is no longer in business.