Talking to people on the Internet, especially on social media, wears you down. Sometimes you get to the point, where you just tire of talking to the morons on there, all of whom are experts on things like military tactics and strategy, finance, police tactics, the law, the Constitution, and medicine. A couple of cases from my recent experience:

Finance

In a discussion of my recent post on the couple with the 538 FICO being charged 20% interest on a car, there was the guy who told me the law should cap interest rates at 6%. When I pointed out to him that this would force banks to stop loaning money to anyone with a FICO of less than 650, and would likely force them to require 50% down for those from 650 to 700. After all, with a 28% chance of default within a 12 month period and a cumulative 41% chance of default over 36 months, people with low FICO scores are poor risks for credit.

He told me I was wrong, then claimed to have received a Nobel prize for his work with Grameen Bank, when that bank saw an increase in repayment rates of 1000%. I pointed out to him that mathematically, it would be impossible for any bank to have such an increase unless their repayment rate was 10% or less before the change. He told me I need to educate myself. Then pointed out that a bank who has a repayment rate of 1 in 11, then sees the other 11 people begin to repay just had a 1000% increase in repayment. Never mind that this would mean 12 of the 11 customers are now paying, thus making it mathematically impossible. Not only that, but the Grameen bank is making loans of an average of $100, and is charging 20% interest on those micro loans. The bank does have a repayment rate of 95%, but it does this through local peer pressure.

This is how the bank works: A peer group consists of 5 people who live in the same village. Each of them individually receives a loan, but if any one of the five defaults, the others in the peer group are no longer eligible to receive any loans in the future until the delinquent account is brought current.

Borrowers must contribute to group savings accounts, and the savings accounts take the place of collateral. Rather like a secured credit card, the borrowers are essentially borrowing their own money at 20% interest. I don’t understand how that is worthy of a Nobel prize.

That’s the system he wants to emulate? Not to mention the fact that he clearly can’t do simple arithmetic. At the end, he accused me of being stupid in supporting billionaires who are earning profits through usury, and said I probably had a 450 credit score. Whatever.

Medicine

Then there was a story about a woman who was traveling at a high rate of speed and running red lights, and was spotted by police. The police tried to pull her over, but she refused to stop, instead turning on her flashers and waved out the window at them. After giving her several warnings on the PA, they performed a PIT maneuver. The woman stated she was driving like that because her mother was having stroke symptoms and she was taking her to the hospital.

I pointed out in comments that the cops don’t know that, and failing to pull over for the cops was a bad idea. After all, there is a non-zero chance of them hitting someone, they may not even be heading to a stroke center, and this would actually delay the mother’s care.

This mental midget came on and tried to explain to me that they weren’t headed to a stroke center, but to a hospital, or even an emergency room. I pointed out that I am a board certified ED nurse, paramedic, and certified stroke nurse. She said “So of course you will support calling an ambulance, so you can make an extra $2000 for an ambulance ride, and that’s the problem with US healthcare. They don’t need a stroke center, an emergency room will do just fine.”

I then pointed out that not every ED is equipped and staffed as a Comprehensive Stroke Center, so depending on the type of stroke the mother was having, they may not be able to deal with it, which would require that the ED call an ambulance to transfer her to the proper facility, thus delaying care (perhaps even past the window), whereas calling an ambulance to start with would have seen the mother taken to the proper place to begin with.

She then told me that I was wrong, and don’t know what I am talking about. She said “No emergency room will turn you away.”

A great example- my previous ED was a primary stroke center. The nearest comprehensive stroke center was an hour away. We had a Labor and Delivery department, but two nearby hospitals didn’t. We had a Level II cardiac cath lab, the next three closest hospitals didn’t. Every hospital and ED has different levels of what they can provide. The local ambulances know who can provide what services, and they take patients to each facility accordingly.

When you drive a person to the hospital, you likely don’t know that. If the person needing care has a problem that is beyond the capabilities of that hospital, care will happen, but not the best care. The best care for that person will happen after the person is transferred to a higher level of care. Few and far between are hospitals that are the best at everything. It’s expensive and difficult to staff every specialty doctor and the equipment they need, and many hospitals don’t have the patient volume to be able to do so.

In Person

Even in person, it’s no better. I was recently at a pineapple farm, and some idiot next to me actually told the friends he was with “I don’t understand why the put in all of this effort when they can just buy pineapples in the store for five bucks.”

Sigh. Some days, talking to the idiots just makes me weary. Talking to people is generally useless, and I just get tired of doing it sometimes. They don’t know what they don’t know, but are happy to beat you over the head with their ignorance. The older I get, the less I like people

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25 Comments

Michael · March 21, 2026 at 8:06 am

Whether Mark Twain or George Carlin it’s the same:

Never argue with stupid people because they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.

Glad you continue to show restraint, moderate comments and still show us interesting stuff.

Meanwhile some time with the Misses perhaps? After all you’re a Per Diem now, right?

Weather down your way should be nice aside from “Spring Breakers”.

Some Rando · March 21, 2026 at 8:15 am

Teh stoopid! It burns!
Bring back humility!

EN2 SS · March 21, 2026 at 8:25 am

To quote a meme,,,
I don’t even bother arguing with anyone on the left anymore. The level of willful ignorance and delusion is just exhausting another worth my time.

And,,,
And there it is, the stupidest fucking thing I’ve read all day.

Which I see a LOT of daily.
Most of this edumacated ignorance seems to be since the installation of the Edumacation Department by the feds.
Sad and depressing.

Elrod · March 21, 2026 at 8:33 am

RE: the stroke center thing – I hadn’t thought the “emergency medical care” all the way through (I got spoiled by 22 years of working within a few miles of a Level 1 Trauma Center (I think you know which one) and living not much farther away. Time to contact the local ERs and conduct a capability survey. Thanks.

RE: People. Some days moving to a deserted island and becoming a hermit is quite attractive.

James · March 21, 2026 at 9:01 am

Just embrace the insanity,the day goes by much better!

ghostsniper · March 21, 2026 at 9:17 am

My long term internet fatigue has turned into recent internet exhaustion and I’m actively moving to get out. I’m pretty much convinced that everything tech is mostly everything timewasting and frustrating.

No matter what I try to to any more that involves any kind of tech stuff quickly becomes very irritating.

Last year, for the first time in my life, I did an “autopay” for a small consumer loan I had taken out. Experian told me that to get my credit score above 790 I need to have a loan on record. We happened to need a washing machine so I bought one for $846 from Lowes and set it up with their finance depot. The 12 month (6%), $72 payments were to be automatically taken out of my credit card. That card is paid off monthly. In the past 2 months for reasons that are never defined the autopay was “declined”. I have to go to the site and manually pay for the payment using the same card. Yesterday I noticed on their site they charged me a $25 late fee, and I’m assuming this put a slam on my credit report. Monday morning I’m going to try to use my tech gadget known as a cellphone and try to get to the bottom of this. At the very least, on Mon I am going to pay off ($167 bal) that washer. That is, if my cellphone lets me.

Worker · March 21, 2026 at 10:07 am

Suck it up. It will only get worse the older you become (ask me how I know). One wonders why our species doesn’t become extent.

Boom Shakka Lakka Lakka · March 21, 2026 at 10:17 am

I had a stroke in 2017.
The ambulance guys knew which hospitals specialized in which type of care.
In my case, we passed two other hospitals to get to Seattle Cherry Hill, which specialized in Neurosurgery/Neurology.
I was receiving care within a half hour of arrival.

SP RN · March 21, 2026 at 10:58 am

“The older I get, the less I like people.”
I agree, and said dislike occurred all-at-once with the covid scam. As was once the slogan of the Fisk Rubber Co., it became ‘Time to retire’.

Treefarmr · March 21, 2026 at 11:14 am

“A man’s got to know his limitations” apparently doesn’t apply to the Internet. The pineapple comment did make me laugh though. I want to believe the guy was making a joke.

    Divemedic · March 21, 2026 at 12:18 pm

    I hoped so, too. Sadly, he wasn’t.
    His friends were all nodding like he was a genius.

      Steve · March 21, 2026 at 3:58 pm

      Unfortunately, I’ve heard the same thing about chicken.
      Why do we need those massive chicken farms?
      We can just go to the store and buy chicken.

      I think the food product has become so isolated from the raw material that people have no idea where packaged food actually comes from, prior to its’ showing up in the store in packaging. My grandparents farmed chickens and my father helped butcher them, so they (and me) were very aware of how chickens were raised and processed, prior to them becoming meat in the freezer. But as I was told above, just go to the store and buy some chicken.

      Clueless.

        @HomeInSC · March 22, 2026 at 4:20 pm

        We aren’t trying to make a living at farming – not practical for us. We do have our own eggs. We raised some pigs. Guinea hogs. Slow growing, easy going, smallish. They were delicious. Gave my neighbor one. One of our favorite pasture mowers had a hip injury. It was sad but we now have lots of beef. Mostly grass fed but with some grain. Older animal. meat is dark, fat is yellowy. Very beefy flavor, maybe bison-like. Food in this country is too national, too corporate.

          Michael · March 22, 2026 at 7:50 pm

          There is an old joke between Ranchers (probably farmers also).

          How do you make a small fortune in raising beef.

          Start with a large fortune.

          EVERY Farmer I know around here have a “Real Job” and that supports their farming habit. Too many rules “For our Safety” and legislation and “farm support” for the Big Boys to compete.

          Wish you weren’t so far away I’ve been wanting a breeding pair of Guinea Hogs.

JebTexas · March 21, 2026 at 11:29 am

I really feel that old saw from our ggggrandparents… “I can see the smoke from their chimney… TIME TO MOVE!”

C · March 21, 2026 at 1:50 pm

I feel your pain. Last time somebody said that they didn’t want a ambulance bill my response was “It isn’t like you’re going to pay this ER bill; so why not tack ambulance on their too?”

Kafiroon · March 21, 2026 at 2:08 pm

After hearing and seeing some of the stupidist things I have ever heard/seen, the thought was to not suffer from insanity but enjoy it.

Steady Steve · March 21, 2026 at 3:22 pm

One thing I have learned in life. When it comes to stupid people, don’t try to get in Darwins’ way.

Danny · March 21, 2026 at 4:21 pm

If social media has any redeeming qualities one of them is to make you aware that there is a lot of ignorance in the general population.
There are many out there who think everything is okay.
No. Things are not okay.

Don Curton · March 21, 2026 at 5:13 pm

My last several years at work I finally wised up. Someone would ask a technical question and I’d give a technical answer. Then they’d argue about it and I spend hours arguing back. But then I learned that I could just look at them, pretend to think about it, and tell them their answer makes sense. Then I’d point at the door and invite them to leave. It works and when they fail later I just ignored the fallout. Of course that didn’t do the company any good but I was past the point of caring.

    Jester · March 22, 2026 at 3:49 pm

    I deal with similar things at the health care facility I work at. I’m the resident subject matter expert on my service line, the services we provide and the laws, regulations and SOPs we are required to follow. Ill get some crack pot Social worker, RN, LPN all the way to full on MDs that will ask me something pertaining to my service line, get told something they dont want to hear or like and have to argue with them. Veterans too. I wanna see the regulations. I provide them to only hear why I’m not reading them correctly or that the regulations are themselves wrong. Most instances these things are set many levels higher than I exist in and most are written in to the Federal laws. No matter, I must be wrong or the law is wrong.

Mjeff87 · March 23, 2026 at 1:19 pm

Long time lurker, first time poster…your comment on the amberlamps ride is spot on. Several years ago I did something stupid to myself in the garage which caused me some degree of bodily trauma. Home alone, no neighbors out for me to scream to, couldn’t drive myself so I called 911. The boys arrive, stabilize me (I did go into mild shock which they got me out of and took the white out of my face). Loaded me up for transport and the guy in back asked me which hospital I wanted to go to. “No idea bro…I just need to get to one somewhere”. There were two relatively close and equidistant I was thinking of, but he said if it were him in my shoes with the injury I had I’d want to be taken to XXXX ER which was about 20 minutes away (non-emergency transport, I was stable). I trusted his instincts, and he wasn’t wrong.

And as an aside, thanks for hosting this place DM. It’s a daily read for me.

WallPhone · March 23, 2026 at 1:54 pm

The capped interest rate permanently hurts consumers, as once they drop below the profitable margin, there’s no motivation to bring their head back up.
Let’s assume the Mercedes couple truly did improve their finances, and successfully pay off the car… Suddenly the credit score is better. They now qualify for better rates to improve the other debt issues that got their score where it currently is.
Of course, they can do the same thing without buying a new car, but the psychology of paying off a debt without a reward takes much more discipline. (I.e. paying off an impounded car).

The ED rationalization is hilarious. I took my son to a large hospital ED when he started showing signs of concussion following a bike crash. They still ambulated him to a smaller children’s hospital miles away because the other facility was better equipped.

Lad the non-Impaler · March 23, 2026 at 9:11 pm

I’m behind in my reading, I gotta check out the Snorebell prize winner’s comments.
Some people just think they are always the smartest one in any room. When the facts hit them, it’s going to be like a baseball bat swung at full speed.

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