“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

Over a year ago, I was involved in a case where a patient attempted to punch a pregnant doctor. I stepped between them and took the punch instead. I pressed charges. After a year’s time, where I was served with no fewer than 5 subpoenas and had at least two depositions taken, as well as giving a written statement, and a few calls and visits involving the police and the prosecutor’s office, the case is done.

One of the depositions was legendary. It went like this:

  • Did you restrain my client? Yes.
  • Were you aware that he is disabled? No.
  • Are you allowed to restrain patients? Yes, under certain circumstances.
  • What circumstances? If a doctor orders it, or if a patient is an imminent threat to themselves or someone else.
  • Did the doctor at any time ever ask you to restrain the patient? No.
  • Are you saying that you restrained my client using your professional judgement? Yes.
  • What are your qualifications? (We cover my licensure, college, training, and experience. It sounds rather impressive when listed like that, if I might say so myself.)
  • Is the training provided by your employer in compliance with Florida law? I don’t know.
  • Why don’t you know? You are asking me to draw a legal conclusion, and that isn’t my area of expertise. If you want to know about the compliance of this training with state law, I suggest you contact my employer.
  • Let’s get back to the subject. In your professional opinion, can you give me an example of a person who is presenting an imminent threat to someone else? Sure. One that comes immediately to mind is when a grown man is trying to punch a pregnant woman in the back of the head.
  • Ok, let’s move on to another line of questions. (I smirked. The prosecutor had to cover her face with her hands for a moment)

Since he was arrested in my incident, he has been arrested at least half a dozen times for attacking people, burglary, domestic violence, and flagging down a motorist to attack them. That doesn’t sound like he is too disabled to attack anyone. In fact, at the time of my last deposition, he was on probation for an assault charge from March of 2025.

Anyhow, the case has ended with a plea agreement. He got a year’s probation. He still has charges pending in another case, but we all know that nothing will be done to him. The courts have done nothing. Again, and again. Attack, arrest, probation. Wash, rinse, repeat.

Sooner or later, someone will punch this guy’s ticket. I just hope that it won’t have to be me. I don’t need the hassle.

I did learn an important lesson here. This case cost me hours of my time and was a major inconvenience. This guy? His lawyer was free, and he faced no real consequences. I won’t press charges next time, it just isn’t worth my time.

Categories: Crime

20 Comments

footintheforest · January 2, 2026 at 7:16 pm

Execution prevents recidivism

Joe Blow · January 2, 2026 at 8:38 pm

No joke, a local sheriff told me one time, put one in the front to make my job easier.
Else SSS….

Steve S6 · January 2, 2026 at 8:53 pm

When I lived in Cincinnati OH some of the homeless downtown had the habit of attacking people during the winter so they could get arrested and a warm bed for a few. Cops would ask the victims to not press charges as it just encouraged the behavior.

Jen · January 2, 2026 at 9:38 pm

Manager: “What could you have done differently?”

    Skeptic · January 4, 2026 at 8:25 pm

    Sooner or later, he’ll kill someone.

Been There · January 2, 2026 at 11:23 pm

Same here last year. Prevent attempted kidnapping (and worse) – go to various court proceedings all year. Trial. Jury says he’s cool. He’s freed.
Next time I shoot first.

TCK · January 3, 2026 at 5:07 am

Well, that’s super depressing. Not actually unsurprising (which says some things about the current state of out society), but depressing.

Stefan v. · January 3, 2026 at 5:39 am

Halapeño/Castor Oil salad with a jumbo side of Sauerkraut three times daily would keep him too busy and miserable to get out and about, let alone with enough energy and daring to assault anyone. Allegedly good for weight loss too. Watch the hydration and electrolytes.

A simple common sense rule of life is “thou shalt not attack people trying to help you, and certainly nobody with access to your medicine, food or vehicle”.

SmileyFtW · January 3, 2026 at 10:07 am

I understand your frustration and the decision to simply not press charges in a future similar encounter. That being said, I don’t like it.

What bothers me is that the slow degradation of standing up to wrongs grows. With no pushback in these situations things will get worse, much worse, before they get back to where they need to be (if ever). What that implies to me is that extra-judicial measures become more prevalent – further degrading what remains of civil decency.

Like I said, I understand. With more and more “not pressing charges” society will become more violent and less civil. I don’t have answers; I just feel frustration. I am 73 this year and never thought western society, America in particular, would have fallen so far.

Thank you for all you do and for the time you take to comment on your world.

SmileyFtW

    Divemedic · January 3, 2026 at 11:56 am

    Pressing charges does nothing but waste my time and enrich the government employees engaged in the Kubuki theater that is our “justice” system. The more direct way is to aggressively defend yourself from the other’s use of force, but that will get you fired if it happens to occur at your place of employment, because employers have NO liability for injured, crippled, or killed employees, but they DO have liability if an employee engaged in self defense injures a (criminal) invitee on their property.

    The entire system is rigged in favor of criminals and corporations.

    The left has it wrong- it’s not capitalism that has failed, it’s government that has failed. A socialist/communist government will be no better than a corrupt crony capitalist government, because people are people, and the more power given to people, the more it will be misused to enrich those with the power.

WDS · January 3, 2026 at 11:58 am

I’ve had to attend 2 depositions in my day, neither as entertainingly humorous as yours.

Well done.

    Divemedic · January 3, 2026 at 12:06 pm

    The other question that made me laugh was when he asked:

    Did you serve in the miliary? Yes.
    What branch? Navy.
    What did you do there? SEAL? No, I was an electrician.
    Oh…

    He was looking to see if I was some kind of expert in hand to hand combat, so he could use that to show I was simply picking on his client. The funny part is that he never asked me if I had any training in martial arts. Then the fact that I have been training in Brazilian JuJitsu and Muay Thai boxing would have come up.

    Still, that isn’t the issue. If I had unloaded on the guy, it WOULD have been much worse. The secret is, his client is a criminal douchebag that keeps getting his ass in trouble for hitting women, children, and feeble old men. The first time he got tied up with someone that wasn’t putting up with it, he got his ass handed to him then went to jail.

    The system doesn’t handle people like this very well. He has arrests for battery, domestic battery, stalking, and witness intimidation- nearly all of the victims are women and old men.

Danny · January 3, 2026 at 12:36 pm

You have obviously had to take a lot of stupid, violent people doing your job. I doubt I would have lasted very long in same job — I’d probably be doing time for manslaughter.

And imagine if that guy had “slipped and fallen” and bashed his skull against something while at your hospital — lawyers would have had a field day. It’s all very disheartening.

Danny · January 3, 2026 at 12:40 pm

should have been “taken a lot off of …”

Chuck · January 3, 2026 at 4:00 pm

You said his lawyer was free. Was he working pro bono, or was he court appointed? I only ask to know if you got the pleasure to pay for his lawyer as well as the prosecutor and judge that let this douchebag walk.

    Divemedic · January 3, 2026 at 6:20 pm

    Court appointed.

lynn · January 3, 2026 at 5:24 pm

One hundred volts at the temples for ten minutes should fix the problem.

Big Daddy · January 4, 2026 at 8:42 am

My kids both work EMS. My son is a ghetto medic and gets attacked by a patient every now and then. He was attacked right in front of a girl cop who did nothing and he knocked the guy on his ass. The girl cop said he couldn’t do that. He told her to get the hell out of there if she was just going to be a spectator.

The justice system is sorely misnamed. There is no justice down at the courthouse for this type of thing. The only measure of justice that you’re going to get is what you are able to procure for yourself on the scene.

McChuck · January 4, 2026 at 10:46 am

The system is what the system does.

Treefarmr · January 4, 2026 at 3:18 pm

It’s a tough call. Do the right thing and get “Daniel Penny’d” or refrain from all intervention unless you/yours are personally at risk?

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