Take a look at this:
My thought is this is sexual battery, or at least an attempted one. One of my duties is to protect my wife from this sort of attack. I will use force to do so.
Some in comments to that video have said the husband will go to jail for using excessive force.
- So do you think the law requires a husband to stand there and allow someone to caress his wife’s ass?
- If no, what level of force is appropriate?
- Did this husband’s use of force exceed that?
Others say that the husband deserves to have his head stomped in.
Is this force used by the husband excessive? Discuss.
26 Comments
Gordon · April 27, 2026 at 3:12 pm
Entirely appropriate!
snuffy · April 27, 2026 at 3:21 pm
Nope, excessive would be if he continued after drunk dude was down and obviously out. If the cops came, saw the vid, I’m betting they’d come to the same conclusion.
Tsgt Joe · April 27, 2026 at 6:32 pm
I’m with you, if he’d stomped him when he was down and out, that would be excessive.
Barefoot Peckerwood · April 27, 2026 at 3:32 pm
He responded exactly how a husband should if his wife is.touched that way
YourAverageJoe · April 28, 2026 at 4:55 pm
Yeah the guy deserved the shot, but it would have been better to place it in his gut rather than risking killing the slob.
Michael · April 27, 2026 at 3:35 pm
Works for me. Drunk got just enough force to solve the issue.
Pete · April 27, 2026 at 3:44 pm
Force is one thing, but this was lethal force. The guy could have died or at least gotten a TBI.
A backward shove to the chest and a stern “keep your hands off my wife!” would have done the job *without* landing the husband in prison or at least spending a bunch of time and money defending himself in court.
Divemedic · April 27, 2026 at 4:21 pm
A single punch, as a matter of law, is not lethal force. Courts have ruled a single punch is non-deadly force, absent extenuating circumstances, because it isnt likely to casue serious injury.
Boba O'Really · April 29, 2026 at 11:11 am
Nope, the argument to shove instead of punch sounds an awful lot like shoot to wound.
If you are going to shoot, you shoot to kill. If some drunken twatwaffle decides to fondle your wife, you end it right there. He started it, your duty is to end it, or die trying.
Chutes Magoo · April 27, 2026 at 3:47 pm
An tap to the nads would have been suffish! If the offender gets lingering injuries from hitting the deck after being KTFO, there may be an lawsuit in the protectors fuutch.
Divemedic · April 27, 2026 at 4:16 pm
The best part of Florida’s stand your ground law is lawsuit immunity.
FormerSSG · April 27, 2026 at 3:48 pm
I’d be offended if my husband didn’t defend me. No one should just grab anyone’s anything without immediate consequences.
Anonymous · April 27, 2026 at 4:25 pm
Perfectly reasonable use of force.
ghostsniper · April 27, 2026 at 6:11 pm
First off, we now live in a society contaminated by cucks, even in this comment section.
Now, my wife is mine alone in all ways and has been for 42 years.
If a varmint decides he wants to use my wife as he sees fit then he also gets to pay the price, and “I” set the price.
If a husband does not instantly defend his wife he does not deserve her, and by not punishing the culprit right on the spot he is encouraging the culprit to take it to the next level.
The husband did the right thing and people that think otherwise probably don’t have a wife.
How in the world could a motherfucker look at himself in the mirror if he didn’t defend his wife? What a fucking cowardly loser.
Divemedic · April 27, 2026 at 7:18 pm
My main duty is to care for my wife. A wife will put up with many things- she will help when money is tight. She will put up with your bullshit. All a wife REALLY wants and needs is to feel safe, and it is the husband’s duty to make that happen. If you can’t protect her and make her feel safe, then you have failed in your main and most important duty to her.
I actually showed this video to my wife, and she fully supports my opinion on this. I told her to call the lawyer and come bail me out. The likelihood of a person with a clean record being charged with anything more than a misdemeanor is very low.
Beans · April 27, 2026 at 8:59 pm
To all those who say it wasn’t unjustified, they have never seen or been around a drunk who is only temporarily removed from an incident, who then comes back, still drunk, and escalates the violence.
Husband is totally in the right. He would possibly be in the right in shooting him, because aforementioned drunk is an unknown level of threat to wife.
As to hitting drunk and knocking him out, so? Threat neutralized.
As to husband shouldn’t have acted but waited for manager/bouncer to take care of it? Notice the manager/bouncer only gets involved after dirtbag gets knocked out. When seconds count, help is minutes away.
Divemedic · April 27, 2026 at 9:03 pm
Cucks saying “I would have done something, but what if he gets brain damage and I wind up in jail?” Are pussies and dont deserve a wife.
Rob · April 27, 2026 at 9:28 pm
Textbook definition of FAFO. Idiot just got unlucky. Probably got away with this behavior many times before. Not this time. He got exactly what he had coming.
Plus I’m sure the husband got exactly what he deserved when he got home. Don’t know if his wife loves him, but she surely respects him.
EN2 SS · April 28, 2026 at 8:25 am
From her actions in the video, she knew what was going to happen and made a minuscule effort to slow hubby down. But not a real effort, which means to me she actually wanted the drunk put down.
Good job, hubby, I do believe the drunk still remembers what not to again.
Pat H. Bowman · April 28, 2026 at 7:36 am
This wasn’t excessive at all. This is how we used to keep polite society polite. Someone does something socially unacceptable, gets punched in the face, learns said behavior produces a poor outcome and ceases behavior. The other patrons in the bar learned this lesson by proxy.
Excessive would have been stomping on the guy after he was down. Or choosing the LEO response of mag dumping into him. This was perfectly reasonable.
SiG · April 28, 2026 at 8:18 am
Husband was entirely justified, entirely OK. It’s an interesting aspect that his wife seems to try to stop him, like “I took care of it. You don’t need to do that.”
I think our place as husbands is the old line that you see on millions of cop cars: “To serve and protect.”
McChuck · April 28, 2026 at 9:55 am
The purpose of a man, especially in the role of husband, is to protect and provide.
C · April 28, 2026 at 12:03 pm
I see no issue with it. All I can say is that its a shame dueling isn’t legal.
Steady Steve · April 28, 2026 at 2:38 pm
Definitely justified. I probably would have chosen to grab the drunk by the throat, squeezing hard and put him out the door. Then punched him and kicked him in the nuts where the camera couldn’t see.
The Southern Nationalist · April 28, 2026 at 2:51 pm
When the police show up and start their investigation and talking to witnesses, the folks at the bar should do what they did the movie “Road House” “You see anything Pete?” “I didn’t see nothing” “You see anything Tinker?” “A Polar Bear fell on me”.
MrHappy · April 28, 2026 at 10:11 pm
A Husbands duty is to protect his wife, not because she is weak, but because she is precious.
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